Dear RoxySue:

Reads like a decent man, honest with you throughout. And he does have a lot going on.

His honesty with you as well as his exclusivity, is promising, in my mind. If you do get to spend enough time with him, and if you enjoy his company, it may not be good idea to end the relationship.

The commitment you want, being “not sure of a future”-

No person in the whole wide world can be sure of his or her future.

Many millions of people found a forever committed partner and got to see that commitment turn to a thing of the past.

If this man has been persistent all this time in his non-commitment, reliable this way, then he is more likely than these many other millions of people to be reliable when (and if) he does form a commitment to you.

anita