Thanks Eliana,

I have already talked to her and supported her at the time when she was undergoing the process and now that things have settled down I feel like talking still is effecting my mental well being, though I want to talk to her maybe because of the attachment ,whenever i talk to her i feel like whats the point when we are not going to be together. I guess I just need to be strong and stop talking to her and as you said put myself first.

Hi Anita:

You are right its a combination of both.In the first place I feel like abortion itself is a wrong doing as she had to suffer both physically and mentally and a life was included in this which was aborted.  Also I feel that even after that if we would have been together it wouldn’t have been so bad, but now the thought of being with someone else seems very wrong to me.