Dear Cali Chica:

This most recent post by you is most precious to me. I feel affection and appreciation for you, for having come up with these Bodhi visuals,  for being concerned  for your future children’s emotional well being, and for seeking the truth.

Your last question: “if I go NC they will then harm and harass my sister more?”

In your question you state that they are harming and harassing your sister now, at the present time. While you are in contact with them. This means that you being in contact with your mother/ parents does not protect your sister from harm. It means that continuing contact will not protect your sister.

The question is in the word more. Well, maybe if your mother does harass your sister more, your sister will be motivated to free herself as well (something she is not considering, see her last post from yesterday). Maybe being harassed more will then benefit your sister.

Notice, in asking this question you are considering continuing to sacrifice your life, your well being and your future children’s well being so that your sister will not be harassed more. Your sister’s well being is not more important than yours. Or your future children.

Where should your loyalty be, whose well being is your responsibility? Your own. What a concept, isn’t it?

Once you place your own well being (and all your emotional suffering is physical, only some or most are not detectable by existing medical tests such as blood tests, isn’t that correct) as your first priority, you not only help yourself, but you maximize your chances of helping others.

You are no less important or valuable than any person out there. Attend to the well being of this one person who is reading these very words that I am typing right now. Attend to you.

You, Cali Chica are reading my words: attend to your well being, be it your number one priority. It is your first responsibility, it is what is right and just. It is not right for you to continue to sacrifice your well being for anyone.

* calisister, are you reading my words? Attend to your well being. Your number one priority, your responsibility. It is what is right and just.

anita