Hi Romeo,

I am reading a book now about the Inner Child. It brings so much stuff up from my unconsciouss its amazing.

I can highly recommend it. There might be things that you are not aware of that happened, and it must not have to do with your parents, maybe some other adult, or school mates etc. Sounds like you recognized your pattern very well though. It sounds like maybe at some point in the past you were “rewarded” for being nice and helpful and you associated that pattern with love. But making someone need you after a breakup is not love.

If the answer is not in your childhood then some people like to think about past life experiences.

Hope that helps 🙂