Dear Selena:

No wonder your mother did not help you regarding your sister abusing you, after all, she herself, your mother abused you.

You wrote: “I would rather die than be in the house with the person who called me horrible names throughout my life”- I think I understand. If I was you now, nineteen, in your situation, I will move out ASAP to a homeless shelter for young people, someplace safe. All I would care about would be that it will be a well supervised safe place, a place where no abuse takes place.

As I wrote to you in your previous thread, there is no way for a person to be okay living with ongoing abuse.

anita