Anita,

That is a very valid point, this is the first time I’ve been in a healthy relationship with a guy who wants nothing other than the person I am. I am so use to being with negative and toxic people that accepting that someone can like me as I am is hard to do. All my life I’ve never been enough, I always needed to be something more for everyone around me. I truly care about my new boy friend and I just want to make sure I treasure him properly. I still have love for my ex and my boyfriend know this and understands it, he knows that my scars are fresh and that I’m healing them. But it doesn’t stop me from feeling like I am betraying him when my thoughts drift to my ex. It may be that this was so recent of a break up I haven’t acclimated to not being around my ex..

Thank you Mark and Anita guys for your advice it seriously is helping put me at ease!