Dear Mya:

You wrote that she is “an attention seeker”- well, she certainly got your attention.

If and when you find yourself attending to her, that is, when your attention is on her, shift your attention to yourself. You deserve the attention you give to her.

I am glad these have been good two and a half years, and hope for many more to come. Keep learning, keep asserting yourself, you will get better and better at it the more you practice.

anita