Thanks VJ. Honestly, I have tried to let things be too and not force things be any different but when I don’t try my husband tells me I ma emotionally shut off and don’t care about people who are the reason for the person he is today.

I understand where he is coming from and therefore I have never once tried to change their relationship. Infact when he went to India I didn’t accompany him because I thought he will get quality time of 5 days with his parents without me. It’s just either difficult for him to see my point or he sees it but he wants me to continue putting an effort  and not retort. He usually admits that his parents were wrong in doing what they did but also gives me several reasons on why they would have done it.

May be you are right, May be I am trying too hard to make him see my point, a point which is maybe difficult for him to see at this point in our marriage.