To add: Humans are monogamous most of the time. There is cheating. This is universal. This is human. What is NOT human and universal, is to be open with the cheating and to legitimize it.

Paleo Anthropology 101

You are human. Humans are mostly monogamous most of the time. So is he. He is the one who has to come to terms with being human. He is in fact hard wired to be monogamous. Until/unless he isn’t. But no caveman or enlightened saint worth his salt would dare brag about his exploits to a woman fully human.

You rightfully dumped him. GOOD! Being unceremoniously dumped is GOOD for him. You did him a HUGE favor! No quality woman will stand for this. You doubted your decision, but 100K plus years of evolution and instincts are never wrong.

Never.

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