To CarpeDiem:

I am 20 years old, and maybe I could ask my Dad for some help. It does seem like a good idea, but I’ve been reluctant to talk to him in the past (he’s a black belt in Tai-Kwon-Do, earned it three times in three different dojos, so low pain tolerance is embarrassing) because our relationship was a bit shaky. Now we’re on better terms, so maybe I could open up a bit.

To anita:

I apologize for not getting back to any of your previous responses. I’ve been wresting with social anxiety for a long time but it was still rude, so I am sorry. Thank you also for your message, it seems very wise. I’ve never really considered my feelings as messengers, more like enemies. I’m going to shift my attention towards the situation instead of my reaction to it then. That is also a relief to hear about anxieties effect on pain tolerance, I think I can fix that.