Dear louisalou:

You wrote in your last line that “he’s just turned his back on me with no care”- I think he turned his back on himself and has been acting not for his best interest for a long time. I don’t think it can be true that he is “with no care”.

He is in trouble. And he needs to be away from you, so let him be. I hope he heals. Separately, I hope you heal from your heartache, from this separation from the man you’ve been emotionally attached to for so long.

Do you know what is hurting him so much, during those four years of the relationship, did he share that with you?

anita