Dear abubin:

If “These cannot be coincidence because it is just too many instances of our path crossing”, and therefore, your relationship is meant to be by some sort of a divine plan, a predetermined fate, and she has experienced this divine plan for thirty years, then why is she interrupting that divine plan by “discovering (you) are not the kind of man she want”? Why is she resisting that predetermined plan with “a lot of hostility”? Why is she “finding faults in everything (you) say?

You wrote: “She has planned her retirement in the next ten years and seems like I am disrupting her plan“. Again, she is interrupting that divine plan with her individual plan, isn’t she?

anita