Dear Heisenberg:

It reads to me that your wife had a difficult time in the country you moved to, where she joined you, and that she was all alone in her difficult time. What I mean by all alone, is that it seems to me that you didn’t understand her difficulties and wasn’t there for her to help her, that you argued with her instead of helping her.

The reason I think that she was all alone with her difficulties is that you wrote: “I didn’t understand…I shown my disagreement…we had long argument on phone… she tried to convince me…. I wasn’t agree with her…I was shocked.”

It is as if you were not aware of the many months, perhaps, of her being unhappy and troubled, so unaware that you were shocked.

If I am correct in my understanding (and feel free to correct me, if I am wrong), then she gave up on you understanding her, gave up on trying to convince you of anything, gave up on expressing her feelings to you.

anita