Jenny Lynn,

Good to hear that his temper has changed for the better.  I tend to be skeptical when someone changes behavior as an adult for I see that as part of someone’s personality and long practiced behavior.  I see any changes like that as temporary but that’s me and been proven wrong before.

Yes of course he needs to understand for proper discussions but how old is he?  Again I don’t see that happening as an adult for this is part of him and it would take very concerted, long term effort to effect a change that lasts in my opinion.

It sounds like his controlling and jealous behavior is something you decided you will not tolerate (line in the sand).  Good for you for knowing your boundaries.

Mark.