Dear Cat:

You are welcome. Congratulations for putting down a holding fee in Bristol! How exciting!

As to “seeing things that are not real, you wrote “there isn’t one sense of reality. The way that I perceive a table, may be completely different to how you perceive a table”-

A table can be perceived as something to use to use for dinner, placing plates and food on and eating. It can be perceived as a place to sit on, as some people sit on tables. Or dance on, as some people would dance on a table (hopefully if it is solid enough). Or it may be perceived as something to burn in a fire, to warm up a home. All these perceptions are realistic because a table can be all these things to different people at different times.

I have a question for you, in my effort to understand your thinking and believing:

if a person perceives a table as an elephant that is about to walk over and stomp him or her, is that reality, in your mind

anita