Hi cw,

There is a quote I like to use because it is so true, and that is “if you don’t know where you stand with someone, it’s time to stop standing and walk away”.  You need a drama free relationship. One where you “just know” no uncertainties, doubt, “will he call” “should I wait” ” what should I do, he is being flaky”. Etc. This is too complicated. He is not there for you, and if you continue, you will make yourself even more uncertain, doubtful, anxious, and miserable. This does not show promise. I do not feel he is wanting to invest in a commuted relationship at this time, and before you get hurt anymore, it may be time to go your separate ways and find a loving, stable man you are certain of, where you feel safe, loved and secure. x