Hi Anita, yes you could be right but I wouldn’t say angry, just easily frustrated and sometimes not very tolerant.  Sometimes I feel like I need a lot of space in relationships and Chloe certainly did give me that on occasion.  I have a lot of friends, a lot of hobbies and a busy company I’m the owner of so time is fairly precious and often (I’m sure like a lot of people) I feel that I’ve never got time to relax and just re-consolidate.

I find that I’ve been through lots of girlfriends in the past and they all start out great, but after a while I always end up with doubts.  I always end up thinking that there’s something better and end up frustrated and often give them a hard time (by being grumpy) when they do something minor that I don’t like.  I know that this is wrong and I often tell myself to chill out but sometimes I can’t help it.

I tend to think about things a lot and I worry that I often over analyse things, relationships especially.  I make plans in my head but those plans often revolve around myself or friends, rather than my girlfriend.  The common theme with me is that I meet a girl, date her, everyone (friend and family) thinks she’s lovely and then a few months down the line (or as much as a couple of years), I think I could do better, so I end things and then move on.  It’s happened at least 10 times and Chloe was the longest.  I don’t know why I’m doing this, and I wish that I wasn’t and that I could settle.  All my friends have settled with women whom I wouldn’t want to be settled with and they’re happy, so I’m wondering why I can’t take that step they have.