Dear Craig:

What you described by the two women is that they either did not communicate with you at al (the first making an assumption and not checking with you) and the second miscommunicating, assuming that you can read her mind. These two behaviors are go beyond not being “off-the-shelf ready for another person”- it is about not checking major assumptions and expecting you to do the impossible: reading another’s mind.

My goodness, reads to me that you had two relationships with two unreasonable women. I… assume you tried to communicate with them best you could but with no results, correct (checking assumption here…)?

anita