Dear JuzzzMeee:

You are significant to him to communicate to you that you are insignificant to him. He gets something out of it, some benefit. Beyond the money you spend on him.

Significant enough to use.

As far as your significance as a person, your worth: he is not the authority over your worth. He is not qualified to evaluate and decide on your worth.

“used” is in the title of your thread. That reads true to me. Insignificant, no, that doesn’t read true to me.

It will be nice if you are significant in someone’s life in a different way, one where the two parties communicate to each other care and respect.

anita