Yes, most definitely. You will heal..you will get over this. Time is the greatest healer. No, I don’t think he is feeling cocky and proud. He probably has alot of worries like we all do. He is not sitting around all day and thinking “ha! I showed her! I’m so great! He has bills to pay, work, and other worries, so don’t worry that he is thinking that about you. You will only make yourself miserable. Think instead of him sitting alone, single, and sad..maybe he is..No one knows what anyone is thinking, but I doubt he is feeling cocky in any sort of way. Just try to replace any negative thoughts with the beautiful memories you shared with him. Not many people get to experience that, fall in love, feel butterflies, etc.

I know it took me a very long time to get over past loves. In the meantime, the book called “How to get over the loss of a love brought me comfort and help”. Just be patient with yourself and the healing process. One day at a time. Then all of a sudden, one day you will wake up, not thinking anymore. It is easy when we just lose someone to be in despair, and think “how will we get over them, and when? But it will happen. Some days, you will take one step forward and two steps back. The next day you may not think about him. The next day you will think of calling him or texting him. But realize these are fleeting thoughts and they will pass. Each day does get better. There is no deadline. Be gentle on yourself, nurture your inner child. Take a nice hot bubble bath, listen to some soothing music, maybe smooth jazz, or uplifting dance music. Go to a comedy club and laugh. Just try to keep busy and gave fun being single, that is the best revenge. x