Dear Edd:

Well, if I am reading this wrong, I am more than willing to re-read or re-start my thinking. You wrote in your last post: “I seem to get bored easily in relationships and look where the grass is greener. That’s something I’d like to change”-

you defined your problem right there, expressing a desire to solve it.

You are welcome to go about solving it elsewhere.

If you would like to communicate with me further, in efforts to solve this problem, then consider answering my question: 

Looking back as far as you can see in your life, when did you notice first that the grass was greener elsewhere?

anita