Dear Michelle:

I wouldn’t like to give you advice about how to…improve this extra-marital relationship, as the two of you are married to other people. I can’t in good conscience suggest ways for you to feel better about this relationship. Don’t want to do the very little I can possibly be doing to encourage it.

If there is anything you need help with that will not include me encouraging you to maintain this unfortunate relationship, do let me know.

anita