Dear Anita,

I am comfortable with talking about anything here, I think I wrote here the most inconvenient and painful things that happened to me. She always told me her mother was strict and yelled at them, they were afraid of her, she never hugged them or showed affection. Grandpa was a decent man but knowing him I assume he was cold and reserved. Didn’t treat them badly but was distant. She always says her mother lost a child before her and was told to have another child (her) just to.. I don’t know, to heal and restore physically. She always accused her mother of this, it scared me how she says it, and how she believes it.