Hi Kelli,

At this time, I don’t think it is possible for him to sustain a relationship. People cannot give what they don’t have, and you will always be frustrated, until he has resolved his issues. He has repeatedly said “he does not know what he wants, or can’t cope with life, etc” meaning, he also can’t cope with the complexities and demands of a relationship. Especially, if he is crying alot. I am not sure if he is on antidepressants or not, but medication sounds like a good option at this time, as it would help him, regain focus and want to concentrate on his healing.

I would maybe take a break from the relationship for awhile. He can’t have one. Maybe in the future, but not now. I hope everything works out. x