Dear Cali Chica:

Well, when at home your brain is out of the work box and scatters, so I figure any thought (initiated in your brain or a response-thought to something you hear) about your mother, father, sister (family of origin), any thought about not doing your social job (of pursuing and accommodating every potential friend), any time you hear or see yourself behaving the old ways, or suspecting that you are…. when you feel your neck hurting, or your head… if you think your husband is expecting you to do something the old way… if you hear something about Peru (that trip you told me about)… Disneyworld perhaps… following something you hear about somebody’s mother etc. etc. etc.

anita