Dear joanna:

Worry not, if you can about me getting offended. I understand and in a similar way I offend people as well. No one is aware enough, attentive enough, all day long so to be able to perfectly express themselves. Funny thing, I worry too. A few posts ago I wrote “Dear Joanna”, using a capital J (I forgot to correct the automatic spell feature that capitalizes the J each time) and I worried that I offended you. It was an automatic worry, stemming from my core  belief that I am a bad, faulty person that is likely to offend another by any possible mistake, any.

Yes, joanna, of course you were and are abused, mistreated, clearly.

anita