Dear VJ – Thank you so much for taking the time to respond.  What wonderful advice you give.  And a great perspective.   You are so right.  I can be very creative at making my worry movies!  I need to start changing my outlook and turning this into the positive thing that it is.   At the end of the day we want our children to be happy and it is their life to live.  I will take your advice and celebrate this with my wonderful son and all who love him.  I know I will have some tough days but what parent doesn’t.    Thank you again.