Dear Sapnap3:

You are welcome. I was wondering regarding your older sister, the middle child, I believe: you shared in an earlier thread that you mother had unconditional love for her, loved her no matter her choices. But on the other hand, for your mother, you were a trophy child (the term you used). As I understood it, you- unlike your sister- had to be perfect so to get your mother’s approval.

I was wondering if your sister is involved in taking care of your mother and if you are the only sibling available for this job?

anita