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We got into an argument Last Thursday morning that escalated way too quickly over something so ridiculous.
I asked him how much something he bought cost. (He buys random things from auction apps and re-sells them.)
I asked him “How much do you have tied up in this stuff” (Ipad mini, headphones, etc)
He got irritated and says its none of my business but if had asked instead “How much are you selling it for?” He would have answered. smh…as if how much did you pay for it wouldn’t have been the next question after that anyways. Both questions were valid and could occur in any order.
So I get upset, because we just started going back and forth about it and he said “You’re retarded!” (That’s like my LINE) calling me out of my name as something more derogatory is CROSSING said line but in this case he knows my limit and was tapping on my line.That is something I take personal. Taking characteristic shots at my intelligence (in this case the relevance of my question) is something I cant brush past. So I was pretty heated about it.
He just walked out of the room and as he came back down the hallway we were looking at each other and he kept saying it. I was like what the heck and I go in the bedroom where he was going. We started arguing a few sentences back and forth and he just yells at me “you’re retarded like your a fucking idiot dude.” I was just like “You’re good, we’re done. Its done.” He basically repeated that at me and I walked away. We have spoke in passing but nothing more than a sentence here or there since then.