I do, he gets wired up pretty quickly in my opinion and escalates it, I’m not completely innocent in it either as I can get loud as well, but I am the one to always say we need to talk about it and try to listen to each other. But it’s hard because he shuts down, and when I tell him he is, he doesn’t respond well to it. That’s what makes me scared because he may just walk away even though I’ve said time and time again that you can’t do that. That’s why if I talk to him about it, I’m not sure if the understanding will be there, and I know that it will also come off as distrust. The last time we had a conversation surrounding this (which was with the wedding invite) he said, well if it’s jealousy that’s a whole new conversation we need to have, and I was scared. He tells me of thier interactions, so I know while he doesn’t tell me everything, he’s not trying to hide the fact that they’re friends. A lot of it is fear of what will happen if I do bring it up again.