Hey boots2018,

After being in a relationship for 10 years the relationship sometimes can become same old same old. Sometimes we also take for granite some of the things that we did for a while but don’t anymore. For instance, maybe he always opened the car door, or cooked super, or told you he loved you a million times a day but things are  it like that anymore. Sometimes we just miss the whole beginning of a relationship thing. I could be totally wrong about this but if you are getting close to your boss then maybe your husband is doing something wrong. There has to be a reason why you have gotten closer to your boss right? My advise is to evaluate your marriage and see how you can make things better. Sounds like there is no future for you with your boss. He’s already said that he wouldn’t leave his wife. If you like your job then put your boss in the friend zone and spice things up at home. Sit down with your husband and plan some outings or be a little wild and just surprise him with something. Always keep things interesting with him and you’ll forget about your boss before you know it.

Again I could be wrong but that’s what I’m getting out of what you wrote.

Hope this helps!