Hi Kylee,

Girl Code dictates that two friends should never be intimate with the same guy. Did you guys know the other one had been with him a few years ago? Or did you both come across this knowledge? If you slept with him first she should never have gone there. If she slept with him first you should never have gone there.

It doesn’t matter that you both proclaimed that you weren’t serious.

Now she is hurt.

It is a vacation/visit and I’m assuming this guy would just be an occasional occurrence. That said, you have to be SUPER sensitive about your friend. No more parties where it is a group thing. See him on your own (a big maybe). Never mention it. And never mention him again. If she brings it up, shrug and say you haven’t heard from him in a while or that you ran into him once.

If you want to see him as a boyfriend, it has to be serious, and you would probably be sacrificing a friendship for it.

Good Luck,

Inky