Dear Anita

Yes, “new idea, something not considered before”, when someone says I am good person or he likes me for the kind of person I am I always want to ask “Really? Like what exactly? Did I say something that you like? tell me more why did you think that” and also “Is it temporary that you think that or was it just a thought?”.

Yes I wanted to please him, or rather to not disappoint him. I always get this feeling. As for your question, yes he is the kind of person who wants to be superior to women. As from what he said about his ex girlfriend she was the one who care more, loved more and always apologizing, she also went out of her way to please him. I would say my ‘relationship’ with him when we were dating wasn’t much different from what he has with other women. As for last meeting, When he was leaving I asked him “now what” and he said “I have to go” and was just staring at me. I know he felt a bit weird, maybe because we used to spend days and nights together and now he just left me like this. I think he did feel bad about it. (not justifying him, I know he would figure something out to stay, he just didn’t want to)