Dear Leocube:

There is such a thing as analyzing too much. This too, in moderation, if it is useful, if it may be useful. For example you wrote: “there’s something telling me that if they aren’t worth being in my life, then I wouldn’t be thinking about them at all. The fact that I will think about them could mean that maybe there are worthy to have in my life”-

it may be worthwhile to analyze this question: do people think (and sometimes think a lot) about people who are of no positive value in their lives, of people of negative value? How often does it happen?

If it happens often this may apply to you too, that you may be thinking about your parents even though they are and will be of no positive value in your life, maybe even negative value.

Let me know if you want to examine/ analyze this particular thing, for useful purposes, that is.

What is true to people, some of it is true to you too because you too are human.

anita