Dear joanna:

You wrote that my description is true. Your motivation, you shared, is to have him in your presence as much as possible because you feel safe when he is present with you.

His motivation, you agreed, is to have sex with you.

You are hoping that in the future he will spend more time with you, maybe if he breaks up with his girlfriend, he will, you are hoping.

Before he had a girlfriend, did he spend enough time with you, enough to your satisfaction, that is? If not, how long have you been wanting that he spend more time with you and he hasn’t (how many months/ years)?

anita