Hi Debido,
He may very well be conflicted. He may very well come back to you. BUT! You moving forward, actually moving forward, filled with hope and optimism, will be irresistible to him.
In my own experience, whenever I would catch a glimpse of my ex, and see him happily living his life (not pining for me), it would drive me CRAZY! On the flip side, there are ex’s who wouldn’t leave me alone for long (yes, even the same guy) because they would see me living the good life, (oblivious to my own supposed heart ache!).
My advice to you is to reconnect with family and friends, travel to new places and start new hobbies and projects. Assume in the deepest part of your being that of course he’ll come back (if only to see how you “are”)!
But be warned: He is most likely to come back when you are the happiest doing other things with someone else!
Best,
Inky
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