Hi Anita,

My relationship with my father when I was young was very scary. As a child my mother told me I hardly ever cried or threw tantrums and if I think back properly I can remember feeling too scared to show emotion. I was always so scared my father. He always created a really horrible energy, my mum was also really scared of him so he put fear in us all. we would behave in a way so he would not kick off. He was a very angry man would start arguments with my mum/brother for no reason. I remember a lot of bad arguments which happened probably on a weekly basis.

As ive grown older my rather has now stopped speaking to my mother totally and has very distant relationships with his children. He doesn’t talk much and stays up in his room most days. He is a very lonely man but no longer an angry man.

I text and speak to him very briefly nothing deep. It’s almost a none existent relationship. Breaks my heart.

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