Hi tori,

Think of this as a blessing. Could you imagine one day being married to this guy, with co-mingled finances, two kids and a dog, and he suddenly up and left for reasons unbeknownst to you? And there you would be, trying to raise two kids and a dog with only your job now having to go through a divorce? Projecting, but this is the type of character your ex has become.

So let him make himself miserable for the sake of his daughter. That’s not even the issue. The issue is you being blindsided by this guy. How can you trust him? AGAIN?

Blessings,

Inky