Not exactly. To buy a place, I would have to sell my dad’s house or a land in the village. We are planning to sell a half of the land (I think it’s called “lot”) this year, not house yet, and she said I can buy a flat for those money it I want to. She would have to agree to it because she partially owns it, so it’s her money too. She is willing to agree, from what she said today and earlier when we talked. I could buy my own new flat in a smaller city, she would stay in her flat (the one I live in now). So I have this option of moving out maybe this or next year. I hope this sounds clear, sorry if I sound confusing sometimes.

No, that was irony, that it’s “a lot to lose”.. He was here only this one time, but when he called two days ago, he told me he wants to meet soon. I assume he wants to keep seeing me regularly because he enjoys it. Moving out means not seeing him ever again, and that’s tough, but it’s not a reason for me to stay here.  I will move out, if I have the chance.