Dear Heartbrokengurl:

Welcome back. Since you are dating again and the anxiety is back, it is a good time to re-read your previous threads on the same issue, dating and anxiety.

Here are your own words Nov 28, 2017:

“My anxiety got the better of me today… I can’t help but think the worst, that he doesn’t find me attractive, or want me anymore, or believe that he will contact me this week like he says he will… I wish I could stop putting him on this pedestal, and stop feeling so heart broken.”

You wrote that you wish you could stop feeling so heart broken, as in your user name, heartbrokengurl.

Right before this wish you wrote, “I wish I could stop putting him on this pedestal”- make it an aim with this new guy, off, off the pedestal!

anita