Hi Amrutha,

Sometimes the best thing to do, is love ourselves and put our needs first. Don’t worry about this person, or that person, what they are thinking, don’t live in fear, and try to not make assumptions about something that may never happen in the future about your parents. It is a shame when the people who are supposed to love us, don’t want to see us happy, so sometimes difficult decisions have to be made. The two are so you go back to your ex that was controlling you were not happy with just to please a couple of people and be miserable? Or be with your current bf who makes you happy and risk making a few people unhappy? Sure, they maybe “against it” right now, but feelings, emotions and thoughts change. These feelings they have our temporary. This is your life to live, not theirs. Don’t live in fear. Follow your heart. Don’t listen to other people who are not out for your best interests. I hope it all works out. x