Anita,
I believe he’s too hurt by our fighting as we both said some mean things to each other. I especially said some rude things to him that I didn’t mean, and he knows that I didn’t mean them – I told him when we met up and got back together initially. I also think he’s scared of coming back to the relationship and fighting again or being hurt again. As I said, he’s not in a good mindset right now. Also I think this pain is making him stubborn, and he once he makes up his mind he tries to stick to that decision. However, he has changed his mind before (i.e. our meeting when we agreed to try again) so I’m not sure about this being his ‘final’ decision.

Thank you.