Dear Jenny Lynn:

In no way were you unfaithful to him. You were dedicated to him. How rude of him to tell you that you wasted his time (and not for the first time, him telling you that). You were a good partner to him. He was not a good partner to you. He punished you for whatever happened to him before he met you. You didn’t do that to him.

His anger about your past, it really is (again, my point) about his past. The problem in the relationship all along has been his past, not your past.

You so very much deserve a better man. You now have the chance to meet and get involved with a better man. Make sure that better man does not punish you for his past, pay the price for what you had nothing to do  with, for crying out loud.

anita