Dear Newlifestartsnow:

No, I don’t think you are a horrible person to think that way. I don’t think … that thinking anything at all, or feeling anything at all makes us good or bad people. It is actions that are subject to our choosing and therefore we may be good or bad according to what we choose to do, including what we say to others.

Will you share more about your relationship with your sister, what is it that you like about her and what is it that she likes about you? How do the two of you help each other and … how do you harm each other?

anita