I suggested that she find a job and she said she wants to. I think it would be good for possibly saving the marriage and for her mental health. She hasn’t made any strides towards any kind of exit plan. I’m currently sleeping in the basement. I’ve done a lot of soul searching and found many ways that I have failed her. I’m trying to improve those as we speak but she doesn’t want my company much or the company of anyone else. I’m exhausted.