Dear Kara:

You are very welcome.

You wrote: “he is not acting this way to purposefully to hurt me, it is not malicious, I believe he is mentally not well”- I believe he is mentally not well as well, but I also believe he is acting this way to purposefully hurt you. Both are true, not one or the other.

The intent to hurt another person is not an exclusive motivation of the mentally healthy.

You wrote: “I understand why he acting the way… Which is dangerous“- I am glad you realize this and that you did come along way since the beginning of your thread. I am glad to be part of it, of your thread. Anytime you want to add to it (or start a new one), I will be glad to reply to you.

anita