Dear Tom:

Good to read from you again. I like your suggestion: “when we meet again I will just be upfront and ask her how she feels it’s all going”. This fits with my suggestion to you September last year: “… instead of assuming, hoping, wondering- ask: get the information, and do so earlier than later.”

Do you have any idea, for now, why she may have taken a step back: did anything go wrong within the last of the 9-10 dates, anything in your behavior that may have turned her off to you, perhaps?

anita