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Hello, just wanted to give a quick update as I’m stressing out a bit.
This new guy I originally posted about didn’t end up working out. He was not who I thought he was, and I’m moving on.
In the meantime, I met someone else, and we have been texting every day. Our conversations are so wonderful. He asked me out on a date, and we went out yesterday. It was such a great date. However, it only lasted an hour, and he didn’t ask to see me again, so I”m a bit confused. I text him and said I had a great time. He replied ‘Yes, it was great to finally met you 🙂 I had a really great time too!’…but again didnt say we should do it again etc.
I feel like my anxiety is amped up yet again, worrying if he likes me, if he will text me again etc. I dont know what to do to calm this side of me, every time I meet a man. My mind was just wandering all night last night and I couldn’t sleep. I really want to stop this and just relax and go with the flow. I don’t want to put men on pedestals, and I want to be confident in myself and know what I have to offer, and that I deserve a great relationship. I’m so frustrated with myself.