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Hello, just wanted to give a quick update as I’m stressing out a bit.

This new guy I originally posted about didn’t end up working out. He was not who I thought he was, and I’m moving on.

In the meantime, I met someone else, and we have been texting every day.  Our conversations are so wonderful.  He asked me out on a date, and we went out yesterday.  It was such a great date.  However, it only lasted an hour, and he didn’t ask to see me again, so I”m a bit confused.  I text him and said I had a great time.  He replied ‘Yes, it was great to finally met you 🙂 I had a really great time too!’…but again didnt say we should do it again etc.

I feel like my anxiety is amped up yet again, worrying if he likes me, if he will text me again etc.   I dont know what to do to calm this side of me, every time I meet a man.  My mind was just wandering all night last night and I couldn’t sleep.  I really want to stop this and just relax and go with the flow.  I don’t want to put men on pedestals, and I want to be confident in myself and know what I have to offer, and that I deserve a great relationship.  I’m so frustrated with myself.