Hello Katie,

I’m sorry about all that you are going through.  Like Anita I’m wondering if there was anything leading up to the breakup?  I also am wondering if this is your first long term relationship?

I hope you will also get some perspective soon how being in a relationship where you are being compared to someone else  where your flaws are highlighted is not a healthy relationship.  And I’ll ask an obvious question…do you really want to be with someone who bases the value of a relationship with you on how you are in bed?

Airene