I don’t.  Other than she has been attracted to men with criminal backgrounds since she was in high school.  She is convinced that this man in prison is innocent and unjustly framed by his exgf and her mother.  We (my husband and I) told her that would be a shame, but if a jury of his peers found him guilty, that is all we need to know.  We have children and we can’t normalize taking calls from sex offenders in prison (she did this in front of my kids on numerous occasions).  She has lived with drug addicts who have beat her and who she has supported by working multiple jobs.  She champions these men as she is the only one who understands them.  She has never been able to take criticism.  She has been fired from jobs bc she is obstinate and defiant with coworkers and managers.